http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/ "Inspiration To Brighten Dark Days And Lonely Nights When All Seems Lost" Tue, 08 May 2012 13:11:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14170 Telesales Tips Tue, 20 Oct 2009 13:58:19 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14170 Next to doing the right thing, the most important thing is to let people know you are doing the right thing. Just be open with changes! Next to doing the right thing, the most important thing is to let people know you are doing the right thing. Just be open with changes!

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14150 Kate M Fri, 31 Jul 2009 12:31:19 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14150 The only constant in life is change. That's what I live by. When I become stagnant, I become unhappy. I have a compulsion to evolve. The only constant in life is change. That’s what I live by. When I become stagnant, I become unhappy. I have a compulsion to evolve.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14147 Dila Fri, 10 Jul 2009 01:26:50 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14147 I agree indeed. Thank you for sharing the quote. I agree indeed. Thank you for sharing the quote.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14146 Anonymiss Wed, 08 Jul 2009 21:18:51 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14146 I love this quote. I will add it to my list of essential quotes. I love this quote. I will add it to my list of essential quotes.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14133 Liggybee Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:58:19 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14133 That is so true...Life does not happen to us. We make things happen in our lives. You can't accomplish anything by waiting for things to happen. That is so true…Life does not happen to us. We make things happen in our lives. You can’t accomplish anything by waiting for things to happen.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14132 mr. nichols Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:23:00 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14132 some people think they can run away from a situation, change a hairstyle, call themselves a different name and say they've changed. but like the great writer said, change only comes when one can confront what he or she ran from. some people think they can run away from a situation, change a hairstyle, call themselves a different name and say they’ve changed. but like the great writer said, change only comes when one can confront what he or she ran from.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14128 Telesales Tips Mon, 08 Jun 2009 08:54:38 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14128 I totally agree on this. if you want to change something, you need to face it! I totally agree on this. if you want to change something, you need to face it!

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14126 JusTina-Marie Simba-Masozera Fri, 05 Jun 2009 19:19:00 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14126 JBaldwin, could not have put it better, change comes from within us; if we do not change everything remains the same because of our mind-set. However, as said above by everyone; with change comes loneliness and depending on where your journey begins; for the individual to get to (this point) often comes from a turning point in life, which often one goes through as compounding post-traumatic moments. This happens during times when we need to know if everything, possible that should, is or was, made available. Regrets (charges) differently from these “two kinds of extremes in feelings”, filling two apathies: one experiences a reaction of an upward surge of passion with the need to putting right retrospectively, and the other a downward with excruciating helpless, unresolved emotional and philosophical pains, in grieving process. If you are especially in these two extremes, it may be wise to seek some kind of help, through either a close friend or GP who can refer you to the appropriate help. If you on the other hand are as brave as some of my friends are and want to “soldier it”, or put it to a bad day, as per-se or using the poor man’s priory over a drink in their locals pubs or with friends on a night out. It may be wise, to-also-confide in another impartial friend that does not share in drink drowning of emotions, a sober friend that can help talk through issues with you during cold sober times to maintain perspective, instead of turning your “groundbreaking moment” into “a tearful mourn” or “euphoria of mambo jumbo”. Some of my other friends say, “They find resolutions from seeking “indirect help” through handling their issues in “altered segments” of their “hypothesises” or “big issues” going on for them, and eventually finding a solution”. This approach is some places can seem like odd behaviour if they are detected by the other person they are playing mind games with, but most people allow it and the Africans mostly enable it through riddles which the seeker makes their own conclusions or works with as a lifetime underpinning ideology based on the momentousness leading to the conversations. I find both helpful especially talking through issues with my trusted friends in the meantime of my therapist sessions, I find “the externalising solution approach” eliminates any self-importance on any account on the subject matter, and attributes merit to the (process) without bias, with the help and ongoing exploration of my progress and steadfastness with a therapist. With that, I am truly grateful to NHS modern day social change management and the progress of our modern day psychology towards accountability and responsibility. If on the other hand, you are like me: sociologically sensitive about social dynamic s and euphorically tunes into societal patterns, it is wise to create a transparent system of support “social democratisation through nurture”. I highly recommend that everyone in a principal or tending position should access support, through any of the alternatives; seek help from a family member, friend, GP or occupational therapist if you prefer. Although this may seem intrusive and labelled at first, in the end it is liberating all round as it restores the enabling/provider roles to their actual positions without the eminence of top-down roles among our enables or providers today; with the potent syndrome in our systems today of “do-as-I-say, not as-I-do”, creating decadence in our cherished civilisation. JBaldwin, could not have put it better, change comes from within us; if we do not change everything remains the same because of our mind-set. However, as said above by everyone; with change comes loneliness and depending on where your journey begins; for the individual to get to (this point) often comes from a turning point in life, which often one goes through as compounding post-traumatic moments. This happens during times when we need to know if everything, possible that should, is or was, made available.
Regrets (charges) differently from these “two kinds of extremes in feelings”, filling two apathies: one experiences a reaction of an upward surge of passion with the need to putting right retrospectively, and the other a downward with excruciating helpless, unresolved emotional and philosophical pains, in grieving process.
If you are especially in these two extremes, it may be wise to seek some kind of help, through either a close friend or GP who can refer you to the appropriate help. If you on the other hand are as brave as some of my friends are and want to “soldier it”, or put it to a bad day, as per-se or using the poor man’s priory over a drink in their locals pubs or with friends on a night out. It may be wise, to-also-confide in another impartial friend that does not share in drink drowning of emotions, a sober friend that can help talk through issues with you during cold sober times to maintain perspective, instead of turning your “groundbreaking moment” into “a tearful mourn” or “euphoria of mambo jumbo”.
Some of my other friends say, “They find resolutions from seeking “indirect help” through handling their issues in “altered segments” of their “hypothesises” or “big issues” going on for them, and eventually finding a solution”. This approach is some places can seem like odd behaviour if they are detected by the other person they are playing mind games with, but most people allow it and the Africans mostly enable it through riddles which the seeker makes their own conclusions or works with as a lifetime underpinning ideology based on the momentousness leading to the conversations.
I find both helpful especially talking through issues with my trusted friends in the meantime of my therapist sessions, I find “the externalising solution approach” eliminates any self-importance on any account on the subject matter, and attributes merit to the (process) without bias, with the help and ongoing exploration of my progress and steadfastness with a therapist. With that, I am truly grateful to NHS modern day social change management and the progress of our modern day psychology towards accountability and responsibility.
If on the other hand, you are like me: sociologically sensitive about social dynamic s and euphorically tunes into societal patterns, it is wise to create a transparent system of support “social democratisation through nurture”. I highly recommend that everyone in a principal or tending position should access support, through any of the alternatives; seek help from a family member, friend, GP or occupational therapist if you prefer.
Although this may seem intrusive and labelled at first, in the end it is liberating all round as it restores the enabling/provider roles to their actual positions without the eminence of top-down roles among our enables or providers today; with the potent syndrome in our systems today of “do-as-I-say, not as-I-do”, creating decadence in our cherished civilisation.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14122 Ms. Denise Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:15:37 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14122 I certainly agree with Baldwin and want to add a footnote, although the issues we are facing may not be changed, something within us will inadvertantly be changed..prayerfully for the good. :) I certainly agree with Baldwin and want to add a footnote, although the issues we are facing may not be changed, something within us will inadvertantly be changed..prayerfully for the good.

]]> http://whenleastexpected.com/2009/03/13/one-reason-why-nothing-changes/#comment-14120 JD Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:49:51 +0000 http://whenleastexpected.com/?p=392#comment-14120 James Baldwin is deep, often times we become nonconfrontational when unplesant issues need addressing. In business, to put off difficult task can kill growth James Baldwin is deep, often times we become nonconfrontational when unplesant issues need addressing. In business, to put off difficult task can kill growth

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