Do Books Choose Their Writers?

Posted by | Posted in Acts Of Faith, B.M.A.D.™ In 2008, Bloggers And Blogging, Book Excerpts, Creative Writing, Critical Thinkers, Cultural Diversity, Education, God And Family First, Health & Fitness, Heroes And Sheroes, Historical Celebrations, Inspiration, Leadership, Mother's Day, My Big Dream, Parenting Skills, Personal Development, Personal Leadership, Proverbs, Quick Questions, Self-Esteem, Sing Your Song, Social Injustice, Social Justice, Steppin' Out Of The Darkness, Taking A Stand, Technical Difficulties, The 8th Habit, The Challenge, Think About It, Wise Words, Women In Scripture, Writing As Art | Posted on 14-01-2008

Last year, my wife, KWiz, and I watched the movie “Freedom Writers.” This year, we watched “The Great Debaters.” Both are unforgettable films. If you’re an aspiring writer who needs a reason to finish writing your book, please don’t wait to see either of these films. Both are amazing examples of the art of story-telling.

It’s true! Everybody has a story to tell. Some of you are extremely talented, gifted writers who can effortlessly employ the power of the written word to tell your stories. For me, writing is a struggle, which is why I started blogging last year. Have you ever wondered if there’s some secret formula or writing technique that will make one book sell better than another?

Can “talent alone” ensure the success of the books that authors allegedly choose to write? Who or what enables prolific writers to repeat the meticulous process behind the creative chaos that made your book a success? Does the timing of a book’s release play a significant part in its author’s ability to emotionally connect with one generation and not another? Do you believe that book sales, or the lack thereof, are an accurate indication of the perceived success or the failure of a book?

According to prolific author Paulo Coelho’s profile, “Slow initial sales [of The Alchemist] convinced his first publisher to drop the novel, but it went on to become one of the best selling Brazilian books of all time.

Have any of you ever pondered the possibility that the part you played did little to determine the success of your book? Did God’s sovereign will and perfect plan have anything to do with the success of your book? If yes, does it really matter whether or not an author chooses to employ “urban street teams” or “main stream” marketeers to promote a book that’s destined to become a national best seller? As writers, what part do we play in the books we author?

Do books choose their writers or do writers choose the books they pen? I had no desire to write a book before I began to pen Steppin’ Out Of The Darkness. I believe the book that I birthed chose me. I can still recall waking up in the middle of the night to write the first page of my big dream. Once I began writing it, I couldn’t stop. Whenever I felt inspired to write, I didn’t sleep much. I didn’t eat. I didn’t talk. Since I didn’t have anything to distract me, I just wrote. I constantly canceled or rescheduled appointments until the words stopped flowing from somewhere deep within the heart of my soul.

Am I crazy or has this ever happened to any of you? What did you do initially? Did you look around the room to see if you were all alone? Did you ignore the words you heard or did you heed the still, small voice that inspired you to believe that you could achieve something bigger than yourself? Did people laugh at you, ridicule you, and reject you when they heard about the genesis of your big dream? My mother and my wife stood by me at a time when I needed their love and support the most.

Writing Steppin’ Out Of The Darkness was an act of faith for me. I wrote on anything and everything I could get my hands on as evidenced by all the cardboard boxes still stuffed with the hastily scribbled notes that I stockpiled over the years. During those difficult days when I had no place to lay my head, I didn’t have time to feel sorry for myself. For reasons that still escape me, I refused to give up after the fall I survived.

Nevertheless, trusting God when nothing made sense wasn’t easy. To challenge myself to keep getting up and showing up for my street fight with Adversity, I started writing poetic essays. Writing literally saved my life after my business failed and I was forced to file bankruptcy. Because of the vision that God gifted to me, I had a plan that I could believe in. God’s unchanging love gave me hope during my darkest days. It’s true! Without a vision, people with no reason to hope will perish.

For reasons now known, “But by grace still go I” is not just some empty Christian phrase that I casually toss around to sound spiritual. If you’re a published writer, did your book choose you or did you choose your book? I hope this post has encouraged somebody to rise to your feet and inspired you to honestly believe that you can beat impossible odds with God’s help. If so, please let me know.

Copyright (c) 2008 by Roderick O. Solomon. All Rights Reserved.

To: B.E.T.’s Executives And Sponsors

Posted by | Posted in Christianity, Inspiration, Leadership, Proverbs, Think About It | Posted on 04-09-2007

“A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”

Proverbs 22:1

Proverb Of The Week

Posted by | Posted in Inspiration, Proverbs, Social Injustice, Social Justice, Taking A Stand, Wise Words | Posted on 02-09-2007

“He who sows wickedness reaps trouble, and the rod of his fury will be destroyed.”

Proverbs 22:8

Who Am I?

Posted by | Posted in Christianity, Inspiration, Proverbs, Who Am I? | Posted on 12-07-2007

She is more precious than rubies. All that your heart could ever desire cannot compare to her. Length of days is held in her right hand. She also holds riches and honor in her left hand. She is not a respecter of persons.

Click on “comments” to discover the answer.

Proverb Of The Week

Posted by | Posted in Christianity, Inspiration, Leadership, Personal Development, Proverbs, Wise Words | Posted on 21-06-2007

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; [I]n all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; [F]ear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones.”

Proverbs 3:5-8 NASB

Message To Men Making Misogynistic Music

Posted by | Posted in Inspiration, Leadership, Male-Female Relationships, Proverbs, Wise Words | Posted on 17-04-2007

“A good name is to be more desired than great wealth, Favor is better than silver and gold.”(emphasis added)

Proverbs 22:1 NASB

For the past few days, my heart has been grieving for all the beautiful women that are hurting because we, as men, refuse to “begin within so we won’t have to do without our women.” As evidenced by my previous posts, I honestly believe that

“a woman is a man’s most valuable resource.”

The women from Spelman College need to know that we, as men, heard their passionate cries for our help more than they need our excuses and justification for the “dehumanization of an entire generation” of great people. The question that’s still lingering in the hearts and minds of one too many of the women who participated, or watched, the Oprah Winfrey Show, “After Imus, Now What?,” that aired on ABC this past Monday and Tuesday is

DID YOU HEAR ME?

There’s no sweeter sound that the power of a wise woman’s words. When was the last time an entire generation of women felt safe and secure in the presence of our generation of men? Sad isn’t it. It’s our responsibility as men to fix what we all played a part in killing, stealing and destroying the women God commanded all men to love.

The word “destroy” means to “render utterly useless.” How can we as men defend an industry that continues to condone and justify the destruction of an entire generation of women who deserve nothing less than the best we have to give?

Can we honestly look our women in their tear stained faces and say with a straight face that we’re giving them our best, doing our best, loving them with the best that we, as men, have to give? If you believe we are, then you deceive yourself. I have to respectfully disagree with any person, male or female, who believes that we, as children of God “can’t dew no better.”

The denigrating, degradating, and demoralizing words that are coming out of our mouths are killing, stealing, and destroying the hopes, dreams, and aspirations of entire generations of great men, women, and children. Do you agree or disagree with me?

Please don’t get this message to men making misogynistic music a socially acceptable art form twisted. I’m not blaming, bashing, judging, condemning, or scapegoating you. Nevertheless, I am challenging us as men to face our biggest fears, to shed tears in the dark, to remember all the years men raped women for fun.

Come Sunday morning, praise God for the women who didn’t leave us, who didn’t kick us to the curb, who birthed us and our children, and stood by myopic men who failed to love, honor, respect, and protect their dignity, their honor, their womanhood.

Come Monday morning, let all the women we, as men, meet on the street how much we love them as we witness without words. Let our actions show our women that we can raise the level of our thinking. Let our action show our mothers, sisters, and wives that we can clean up the lyrics we choose to use to tell our stories. Difficult? Yes. Impossible? No.

“Impossible is nothing but a word to God.”

Let our actions, as men, show all women that we are ready and willing to spend more time listening to the pain in the voices of our “sheroes” than we spend trying in vain to defend men making misogynistic music. Let the women, who are still standing tall on the shoulders of our ancestors, know that we hear them and that they have no reason to fear us.

No good can come out of any neighborhood that would allow any man making misogynistic music to make money and profit at the expense of any woman. Since no person can correct what one isn’t willing to admit, it’s time to quit making excuses for why we, as men, made our women cry, sigh, and die a slow spiritual death. The women who live in fear need to know that we hear them loud and clear.

Racist, sexist, dehumanizing words have stripped our women of their self-respect and dignity and ripped gaping holes in the severely wounded souls of women for the last time. I’m sorry that myopic men making misogynistic music have grieved the hearts of women who believed in us when we didn’t have enough money to pay attention.

Surely, we, as creative men, can devise an innovative way to show our appreciation to every generation of great women who stood by our side until the day they died and cried for the last time.

Quick question. What would our great grandmothers and grandmothers say today if they could hear the words we’re defending and pretending are just artistic forms of expression? The choice to begin within so the next generation of men won’t have to do without our women is yours alone to make.

Enough Is Enough!!

In closing, I beseech each of the racist, sexist men making misogynistic music to choose the battles you fight and the paths you walk wisely before you lose a lot more than just your good name and money. I can’t begin to imagine a world without our women. Can you? I hope not.

© Copyright 2007 by Roderick O. Solomon. All Rights Reserved.

When Your Ways Are Pleasing To God

Posted by | Posted in Inspiration, Proverbs, Wise Words | Posted on 13-04-2007

“When a man’s ways are pleasing to the LORD, he makes even his enemies live at peace with him.”

Proverbs 16:7KJV